It took me a good year to find the courage to answer the phone, and when I finally did, I ended up falling in love with it completely. I never could have predicted that at the age of 30 I would discover my real calling. Phone sex, surprisingly, was not what I had imagined it to be. I quickly appreciated that times had changed and that phone sex no longer was about sharing a crummy booth with twenty other girls (all with curlers in hair and cigarettes dangling from their mouths.) Au contraire, phone sex amazed me and left me stupefied by the misconception I had of it.
Today, I am a proud to call myself a phone sex operator, ProDomme, and sex coach who has successfully helped over a thousand people learn more about and come to terms with their fetishes and kinks. I mostly (but not only) specialize in the male gender and the fetish/kink community and my passion lies in helping my clients learn more about and come to terms with what turns them on. It is my goal to help my clients find effective ways to cope with their fetishes by creating strategies that will not only enhance their own sexual experiences, but also those of their partners/spouses, by helping their partners/spouses effectively deal with and understand these fetishes in order to deepen the bond between them. I would like to broaden people's horizons on what fetishism is by educating them, thus giving them the power to explore their fetishes, kinks, and sexuality without feeling ashamed of fully expressing who they truly are.
My adoration for my work and my clients has taken me on a pleasurable journey and has afforded me the opportunity to talk to and get to know some of the most remarkable people imaginable. I have spoken to people from all walks of life - people in finance, the arts, doctors, lawyers, the fortunate, the not so fortunate, the married, the divorced, the widowed, the somewhat vanilla, to the extra kinky. As diverse as these people are, I quickly realized that they all have one thing in common - and that is that they all need someone to talk to about exploring their sexuality. They all need a way to express their sexual selves without any restrictions or the unpleasant feeling of judgment.
As a result of my work as a phone sex operator, I have been led on my own path of self-discovery and wanting to gain a better understanding of these different fetishes and kinks - so much so that I have gone on my own journey of exploration to find what it is that makes me tick. I have a sincere curiosity and consideration for my clients and am always looking for up-to-date and thought-provoking approaches to help and engage them. Since starting work as a phone sex operator, I believe that I have gotten to know myself better and for the past two years have been non-stop researching, studying, and getting involved with different fetish and kink communities across the world on a daily basis. I have this website that I am very proud of and my podcast "Must Love Fetish" was specifically created to help people understand fetishism better. It is my biggest hope to help my clients who are seeking answers for themselves, or even those who are seeking answers for a loved one, to eventually find those answers with me. It is my goal to help my clients uncover their true sexual capabilities, to live the life that they are truly worthy of, and to help them find that one thing that could lead to a path of greater discovery and self-acceptance. So, here’s to all of us: may we all gain a better understanding and knowledge of the very secretive and wonderfully imaginative world that is fetishism.
With love and light,
P.S Hope to catch you on the kinky side soon!