It took me a good year to find the courage to actually answer the phone, but when I finally did, I ended up falling in love with it completely. I never imagined that at the age of 30 I would discover a new passion. Phone sex, surprisingly, was not what I had imagined it to be. I quickly realized that it was not about sharing a crummy booth with twenty others girls (all with curlers in hair and cigarettes dangling from their mouths,) au contraire, phone sex was quite the opposite for me. In fact, the majority of my callers wanted to mostly talk about their fetishes and were looking for an escape, because they were too afraid to share their sexual secrets and turn-ons with their partners or spouses, in fear of being shunned. I have now been doing this for almost two years and have steadily built up a very loyal clientele for myself. These are all men that I thoroughly enjoy talking to and our sessions usually last on average about an hour. My love for my work and my clients has taken me on a joyful journey and has allowed me to talk to and get to know some of the most interesting people imaginable. I have spoken to people from all walks of life - people in finance, the arts, doctors, lawyers, the fortunate, the not so fortunate, the married, the divorced, the widowed, the somewhat vanilla, the extra kinky - and as diverse as these people are, I realized that they all had one thing in common, and that was that they all needed someone to talk to about their fetishes and kinks - they needed a way to express their sexuality without feeling any judgment. As a result of this job, I have been led on my own path of self-discovery and wanting to gain a better understanding of these different fetishes and kinks - so much so that I have made the decision to obtain my PhD in Human Sexuality with an eventual emphasis on the male gender and fetishes.
What makes me stand out from the rest of them, is the fact that I have a genuine interest and compassion for my callers and am always looking for new and interesting approaches to help and engage them. I am thrilled to call myself a student of sexology and am looking forward to one day having my own successful in-person practice. Since starting work as a phone sex operator, I believe that I have gotten to know myself better and for the past two years have been non-stop researching, studying, and getting involved with different fetish and kink communities across the world. I have this website that I am very proud of and my podcast "Must Love Fetish" was specifically created to help people understand fetishism better. It is my ultimate goal to help my clients who are seeking answers for themselves, or even those who are seeking answers for a loved one, to find those answers. It is my hope to help my clients discover their true sexual potential, to live the life that they truly deserve, and to help them find that one thing that could lead to a path of greater self-discovery so that they may walk away with a better understanding and knowledge of the very secretive and wonderfully imaginative world that is fetishism.
I hope to catch you on the kinky side soon!